Earlier this month, I attended the Talking About Curing Autism (TACA) National Conference in Costa Mesa, California. There were many highlights, but for me, meeting Temple Grandin and hearing her speak was a dream come true. She is just as amazing as you'd think.
I learned so much from her speech and have already put some of her suggestions into action. Here are five of my favorites.
1. Always assume competence.
It was interesting that I had just written about this right before attending the conference. Just because people with autism can't communicate that they know or understand something, doesn't mean that they don't. Instead of assuming they can't, always assume that they can. Assuming they don't know things or can't do things makes them aggressive, and rightly so. Who wouldn't be in a pissy mood if everyone treated you like an idiot all day long?
Tosh is always surprising me with what he can do. Just one month ago he showed me he knew how to drive. I had no idea he had the hand-eye coordination and the ability to handle all of the stimulation. Our kids will surprise us with what they know and what they can do if we let them.
It was only 9 a.m. and I was already exhausted.
Our morning started out very well, until Tosh made a traumatic discovery.
His favorite toy, Buck from one of the Ice Age movies, was missing.
In retrospect, this morning's drama represented progress. Tosh didn't used to care about his toys. If one broke, he'd throw it in the trash without a care. Now that he's gained new cognitive functions and awareness, he's become attached to his toys.
That means when one is lost or broken, he gets upset like a neurotypical kid would. Except he has nonverbal autism, so it's more difficult.
And then you throw my sensory issues into the mix. Specifically, noise sensitivity. When Tosh gets so upset he can't communicate, he makes this high pitched whining noise that shuts down my ability to communicate. I mean, it literally scrambles my brain.
Oh, the irony of autism. Parents in the spectrum are in many ways the least equipped to deal with it. However, if we acknowledge and gain awareness of our own sensory issues, we can become the best parents our kids could possibly have because we understand them better than anyone else in the world.
When I become overstimulated by Tosh's meltdowns, I retreat to the next room alone to calm down. It only takes 15 to 30 seconds for me to refocus, and during that time, Tosh often calms down a little bit, too.
However, today it didn't work because ...
If you are looking for your new pumpkin obsession, you've come to the right place.
These mini pumpkin pies are AH-mazing! I mean, I feel like I should apologize to you now for how many you're going to eat in one day. But hey, pumpkin pie is a perfectly acceptable breakfast food in my opinion, and these are officially healthy.
They're grain-free, dairy-free, legal for keto, Whole30 and Specific Carbohydrate Diets. And if you substitute maple syrup for honey, they're even vegan.
Keto AND vegan? What kind of sorcery is this?
The good kind, baby. It's all good!
Some of you may live in places where it's already cold, but here in SoCal, it's going to be 90 this weekend. And that makes these mini pumpkin pies even better - you don't even have to bake them! They're no bake. No kidding!
Okay, that's enough of a sales pitch. Let's get to the recipe, shall we? I'm sure somebody at your house is waiting to lick those coconut whipped cream beaters!
Tosh has never taken an IQ test because they are designed to measure the intelligence of neurotypicals. What's the point? He already fails all other standardized tests because no effort is made to accommodate his inability to communicate like an NT.
I read recently that apraxia is more than just an inability to speak. It also prevents someone from correctly answering questions using any form of communication.
Wow, what an eye opener. That means because of Tosh's apraxia, there is no accurate way to measure his intelligence.
I'm in the process of setting up classroom observations to determine if the severe class is the correct placement for him and if not, what behaviors he would need to improve to move to the mild-mod class. I'm bringing along his ABA supervisor to see how they could support this transition. We're lucky that our district allows this. Many don't.
In fact, Tosh's teacher asked yesterday if I’d like to observe him mainstreaming as well. "Yes, of course," I answered. What a great idea and generous offer!
It's easy to feel sorry for yourself when you're exhausted, bruised and scared about your child's future. Besides, everybody else is doing it.
We are all painfully aware of the victimization of politics and our civic discourse as a whole. Dignity and courage used to be synonymous with American culture. Now, egged on by social media, we're all in a contest to see who is the most oppressed.
I read an interesting article about the social trend of American victimhood. It argued that attempts to claim status as the most victimized American fail because the unfortunate truth is that all Americans are victims. We are victims of a predatory way of life, malfunctioning institutions, corroded democracy, extreme capitalism and a broken social contract.
If you live by the law of attraction, this victimization echo chamber is making things worse. When you throw yourself a pity party, the universe says, "Ah! They like to be a victim. Better deliver more predators and tragedy."
Predatory institutions also benefit from a culture of victimhood, because it continually lowers the bar and allows what was once socially unacceptable behavior to become socially acceptable. We throw up our hands. "What can we do?"
I've been making these for a few years, long before Tosh and I went grain-free. Back then, I was just looking for a gluten free recipe and was intrigued by the idea of making cookies with mostly almond butter and eggs. No way they would taste anything like cookies.
These cookies are so good, everyone in your family will love them. I find them so addicting, I have to keep them in the freezer so I don't hork down the entire batch in one day.
Super easy to make and delicious. Try them this weekend!
Grain-free Tollhouse pan cookies
Adapted from Food Babe's Almond Butter Brownies
2 cups almond butter
1 tsp salt
1 tsp baking soda
3/4 cup honey
1 tsp vanilla
1 cup chocolate chips
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Grease a 13x9 pan very well, especially the corners. You can also use parchment paper, but I prefer a greased pan.
Mix all ingredients except chocolate chips until smooth.
Fold in chocolate chips and pour batter into pan.
Bake until a deep golden brown, 25 to 30 minutes. Dark metal pans will bake faster.
Try your best to cool for 15 minutes before cutting.
NOTE: Using large chunk chocolate chips or mini chips change the texture of these cookies. Play around with them or use what your family prefers. You can also add 1/2 cup of cocoa powder and another 1/4 cup of honey to make these as brownies instead. If you also add chocolate chips to your brownies, you might want to skip adding more honey - unless you like your brownies extra sweet.
Most of my friends think I'm a pretty ballsy broad, but the truth is, I just have a wider comfort zone than most. I struggle with feelings of insecurity and self-doubt just like everybody else.
Today I did something bold I've never done before: colored my hair hot pink. In the age of mermaid hair, that probably doesn't seem like a big deal. However, as a GenXer rapidly approaching AARP eligibility, it was a huge step outside my comfort zone.
But it shouldn't have ever been that way.
When I was 13, I was obsessed with Michael Jackson. Thriller was, hands down, my favorite cassette tape of all time (still one of my favorites) and I spent long hours in my room memorizing every word and attempting all of MJ's famous dance moves.
Man, did I love his style. I loved it so much, I decided to copy it.
I convinced my mom to let me get the curliest perm available to a white kid living in rural Kansas, and confidently instructed my mom's stylist to cut it shorter on the sides like Michael's pompadour mullet. I was so excited to go to school and show off my new hairdo.
You all know how this story goes - it's a rite of passage most children experience at some point. Nobody thought I was cool. They made fun of me. Even the boy that I liked. Especially the boy that I liked.
That's when I learned a life lesson I've carried with me always. Everyone knows this one, too. We've all seen the meme:
'Shortly after the Great Hair Scandal of 83, a similar fashion incident occurred that involved bright, striped socks worn with matching culottes that I loved but nobody else did.
From that day forward, I vowed to temper my full personality. I had learned that once most people got to know me, they wouldn't like me.
Now, that doesn't mean I became a wallflower. Not at all. Instead, I found an 80s loophole that went something like this: Different is okay, as long as you're still sexy. It was the Madonna litmus test.
And to this day, that has been my personal style. Different, but not so different that boys didn't like me.
Regardless of your political opinion of the Brett Kavanaugh confirmation, if you attended high school in the 1980s, the stories that emerged from the hearing probably made you cringe. Boomers and millennials were stunned and offended, but we GenXers weren't. We went to those same parties every single weekend.
I've always been proud of the fact that as a GenX woman, I could choose any career I wanted, earn my own money, choose to marry and/or have children or not, and do a whole bunch of things my mother's generation couldn't do, but hoped their daughters would. And for the most part, we have.
But many of us were, and still are, caught somewhere in the middle between equality and compromising who we really are so the boys will like us. If we're not the sexy girl, we're the good wife.
It may seem like our millennial daughters and younger sisters have it better, but I'm not so sure. They heroically launched the #metoo movement, but they seem just as insecure and almost as willing to objectify themselves as we did.
I spend a lot of time doing everything I can to help Tosh become the best he can be, but for the past 18 months or so, I've spent more time focusing on myself than I ever have in my life. Not superficial self-improvement, but deep soul diving work. Ugly, Pandora's Box kind of stuff.
It's been the hardest but most rewarding work I've ever done. One lesson I've come to accept within the last couple of months is that I wish I hadn't felt embarrassed about my Michael Jackson hairdo. For almost two years I've wanted to color my hair something cool, like lavender or teal or magenta, but those memories of being laughed at in the lunch line always held me back.
That's why I took the plunge and colored my hair a color that boys my age don't generally like. (Although, a millennial woman I discussed this with today disagreed - "My mom does lots of things style-wise that I'm not brave enough to do, and she pulls plenty of dick," she said.)
I absolutely love my hair. And for the first time in 35 years, I don't give a fuck whether any boys do, too. Or any girls, for that matter. Some will. Some won't. The important thing here is that I no longer care.
As an autism parent, I'm 100% on board with accepting Tosh exactly the way he is. I want him to be able to pass freely through society and progress academically so he has options in life. But when it comes to hand flapping and playing with age inappropriate toys and everything that makes him different from neurotypicals, I couldn't care less.
Anybody who is lucky enough to know him and love him will do so because of who he truly is, not who he thinks others want him to be.
From this day forward, I vow to apply those same standards of acceptance to myself, too.
Obtaining an assistive communication device for your nonverbal child is very exciting. You feel like finally, your baby can communicate with the world.
But it doesn't happen overnight. It takes time for you and your child to learn how to use the device software and integrate it into your life. Because Proloquo2Go (P2G) and other systems are still relatively new, your child's special ed teacher and possibly even your school district's speech therapy team might not be well educated on how to teach your child to use it.
We've been blessed with an excellent private speech therapy clinic, school district technology specialists, a supportive teacher and aides, and a supportive ABA team that have worked together to help Tosh and me learn how to use P2G both inside and outside the classroom.
I'm no speech therapist, but I'd like to share what has worked for us.
First, it's important to customize the software for your child to match their skill level and program words that are meaningful to them. There are professionals who specialize in testing children with special needs to determine which devices are best for them and can provide initial training. Oftentimes, this is covered by insurance but you may need a referral from your speech therapist and/or primary care physician.
If your speech therapist or other therapy or education providers don't provide training or recommendations to specialists, click here for instructions on how to use the app. You can also search "Proloquo2Go" on YouTube to find videos posted by AssistiveWare, maker of the app, as well as videos parents have made.
1. Begin with food
The first buttons most families start customizing P2G is food. They use the app as a menu, prompting the child to tell mom or dad what they want for dinner, and progress to ordering for themselves in a restaurant. You can begin by allowing your child to just select a food, and once that has been mastered, show them where the "I" and "want" buttons are located. Show them how to say "I want pizza" and help them form the sentence each time they request food until they get into the habit of doing it automatically.
2. Beyond a menu
Once they have mastered food, it's time to move on to toys, places, friends and relatives. Customize these categories by adding your child's favorite things. This will expand your child's use of "I want" and improve their ability to navigate through the app. You can also add use of a new action verb like "go" or "play."
Add pictures as you have time. We have photos of all of his friends and relatives in the "people" file, but for privacy's sake, I'm showing our least customized screen here.
I knew we were onto something when Tosh found the "Target" button on his own and declared one afternoon, "I want go Target." Oh yes, sweet boy. I will gladly take you to Target for some bonding time.
The introduction of feelings is an opportunity to add another verb to your child's vocabulary, but tread lightly here. The first order of business is to get your child comfortable expressing their feelings verbally.
When someone is upset, autism or not, they are usually not very receptive to a grammar lesson. However, if your child is expressing that they feel happy, that may be a good opportunity to help them say "I feel happy" instead of just "happy" or "I want happy."
Tosh is still working on using the verb feel, and most often uses this screen to say "I want sorry sad" after he's been aggressive. He's very sensitive to the feelings of others and gets anxious if he hurts me, an aide or a therapist. This helps him move past the incident and discuss a better behavior choice next time.
If your child is in a special ed classroom, they are probably used to using a schedule with PECS. Tosh has been doing this for so long, he is comforted by knowing what he will be doing in a day, and in what order. Each morning we use P2G to review his daily schedule. As shown above, today he goes to school, then I pick him up at lunch time and we eat take out in the park. Then, we go to his private speech therapy clinic and then to ABA.
If we are counting down to a special event like a vacation, holiday or eagerly anticipated play date, we make use of the days of the week buttons as well. This requires a very long sequence of his schedule that can include today, tomorrow, Thursday, Friday and then Saturday, when the big day occurs. However, if your child is like many autistic children, they are obsessed with calendars and special events, so automating this process might save you a ton of time. Here's how to do it.
Once you "say" a sequence of events by selecting each button and then tapping the top section to say the entire sentence or sequence, P2G stores it in the "Recents" section. Teaching your child to access this feature will allow them to hear the sequence over and over (and over and over) again at their convenience. If your child has ever driven you mad by asking to review their schedule or calendar 100 times in a day, this feature will be a lifesaver.
It also allows you to see how much P2G is being used in the classroom and various therapies. If necessary, you can use this feature to keep your educators and therapy providers honest regarding how well they are supporting your child's use of an assistive device.
To access "Recents", select the four panel button at bottom left. That will bring up the "Tools Popup" screen. Select "Recents," which is the button with the clock icon.
On this screen you will find a history of everything your child has "said" with the device. It's important to note that to record a history, after you or your child selects all the buttons to form a sentence or sequence, they/you must tape the top section to "say" the entire sentence. If you don't complete this final step, it won't be recorded in the history.
Tosh uses this function quite a bit to save time so he doesn't have to hunt for each button again when he wants to repeat himself.
Let's quickly return to the Tools Popup screen. Notice the "Search" button with the magnifying glass icon. If you tap that, it brings up a keyboard into which you can type any button you can't find on your own. The software then shows you where the button is located, and you can select and move it somewhere more convenient if you'd like.
5. Reading and spelling
By the time you've implemented all of the P2G uses above, your child has probably already navigated through the entire app and is more familiar with all of the words than you or any of his teachers, aides or therapists. That means it's time to start using it as an academic learning tool.
This week, I'm creating a school page for Tosh, where his aide can program buttons with weekly sight words and words he is learning in reading comprehension. She has also taught Tosh how to access the keyboard function so he can use it to spell words. Here's how to find that.
You can access the keyboard by tapping on the keyboard icon on the bottom bar from any screen. A basic keyboard will appear. Tosh's aide also uses this to help decipher what he is trying to say if he can't find the appropriate button. Despite being nonverbal, he's pretty good at sounding out words - something we didn't realize until his aide began using the keyboard function.
(Yes, his aide is amazing, isn't she?)
Tosh is also learning how to write on paper, but let's be realistic: when was the last time you used a pencil? I think it's very important kids learn using digital tools, and thankfully, his teacher and aide agree.
If your child uses P2G, please share some ways you have implemented use of the device in the comments below. Other parents new to assistive devices will be very appreciative!
Ew. Ew. Ew.
Unfortunately, humans are animals, which means we get worms and other parasitic infestations just like dogs, cats, birds and every other creature on the planet. Because parasites reproduce during the full moon, they are believed to be one of the reasons people are restless during that time. They also can cause people to wake up around 3 a.m. each morning.
That's ridiculous, you say. We live in an industrialized nation! We have clean (well, cleanish) drinking water and good sanitation! I wash my hands several times a day! I go through so many Clorox disinfectant wipes each day, I'm probably personally responsible for at least three different kinds of antibiotic-resistant superbugs!
All of those things are probably true. Except the last one might be an exaggeration. Or maybe not.
Regardless of your privilege or hygiene, according to the Center for Disease Control and more scientific journals than I can link here, at least one quarter, maybe even one third, of Americans have or have had a parasite infestation.
How can that be? Well, it turns out some of our luxuries actually put us at greater risk for worms and other parasites. They include:
There's another alarming reason why the CDC devoted an entire section of its website to the five most under diagnosed parasites in America, which includes our friend the tapeworm, pictured above.
Doctors are dangerously uneducated when it comes to parasites. They don't realize they are common in the U.S. and other industrialized nations, which means they don't recognize the symptoms, don't test for them, and even when they do, sometimes they don't properly treat them. That's why the CDC launched its awareness campaign.
Don't believe me, believe the CDC.
We started the Specific Carbohydrate Diet to reduce yeast overgrowth and control other "bad bacteria" that can thrive in the gut and wreck havoc on digestion and the nervous system. So far, it's been very successful! Tosh's behavior improvements are off the charts and his language continues to develop. Yesterday, he even mainstreamed without an aide, which is remarkable for kid with nonverbal, severe autism.
Last week, I took our health regimen up a notch and started a parasitic cleanse. The diet starves them out, and the cleanse carpet bombs those mufukas and also kills any other parasitic infestations, like these three included in the CDC's list of five.
Are you ready? My apologies in advance for ruining your love of carnitas tacos.
Remember when you were pregnant and your doctor warned you that you shouldn't change the litter box? Toxoplasmosis, a condition caused by the single cell parasite Toxoplasma gondii, was the reason. You can also be exposed by undercooked meat, unpeeled vegetables and contaminated food prep surfaces.
The CDC estimates 60 million Americans are chronically infected with this nasty bug.
That's nearly 20% of us, and the CDC admits its numbers might be too conservative. Other scientific journals put the estimate at 25%. If you know four people, one probably has it.
Toxoplasma gondii lies dormant in your body until your immune system is compromised, and then causes flu-like symptoms. So that flu you think you have? Maybe it's this instead.
Scientific American estimates one-third of people worldwide are chronically affected, and Toxoplasmosis could be responsible for many cases of psychotic behavior, self-harming and suicide.
That crazy cat lady? She doesn't have all those cats because she's crazy. She's crazy because she has all those cats.
When pregnant women are infected, they pass the parasite to their baby. If contracted early in the pregnancy, it usually results in miscarriage or a still born infant. If contracted later in the pregnancy, the infant appears healthy when born, but as it grows, the child develops seizures and intellectual disabilities.
That last sentence makes me cry. Maybe it causes seizures and ID in autistic children. Maybe it doesn't. The problem is, we don't know because doctors don't routinely test pregnant women, or anybody for that matter. You may have had it, you might have it now, and your child might have it. As far as I'm concerned, that's enough reason for a parasitic cleanse.
Fifteen years ago, when I did my first parasite cleanse, I found one of these nasty suckers in the toilet. These are round worms, common in pet dogs and cats.
Even if you're diligent about treating your pet for worms, your kids can still pick them up in the sandbox at the playground, in the park or even in your own front lawn. It just takes one neighbor who lets their dog do his business on your lawn to deposit eggs your child could touch or track in on their shoes ... even if your neighbor picks up after his dog.
Toxocara, as well as other round worms, can also be contracted from undercooked meat.
According to the CDC, approximately 14% of the U.S. population has Toxocara antibodies, which means they either have roundworms, or they have in the past. I had two cats in the house and two dogs in the backyard when I found mine, so the odds were stacked against me.
Those infected with roundworms usually don't show any symptoms. However, they can cause organ damage, nervous system damage and vision problems.
We're back to our friend the tapeworm. It's possible to have an actual tapeworm in your intestines, and we certainly eat enough in the U.S. to sustain one. But an even bigger danger is cysticercosis, which occurs when tapeworm eggs hatch and the larvae burrow into your muscle, organ or brain tissue, where they form cysts. The photo above is of a very bad case of cysticercosis of the brain.
You can't usually feel them in your muscles, although sometimes they form cysts under the skin that you can feel. But if they burrow into your brain, they cause adult onset seizures and masses in the brain as illustrated above.
Tapeworms and tapeworm eggs spread through contaminated food (especially undercooked pork), water or surfaces.
It's highly infectious among families, so if someone in your household is infected, the rest of the family can easily be infected if they don't scrub their hands immediately after using the toilet, or if you don't wash your underwear in boiling water. (And who does that?)
Feeling sick yet?
These are just three of hundreds of parasites that can wreck havoc on your body and cause or make worse your child's physical symptoms and autism behaviors. If you have a progressive pediatrician, they might test for them. But too often, if you ask for testing, your doctor will roll their eyes and jot down "hysterical mother" in your child's medical charts.
Thankfully, it's pretty easy to wipe out many of them. I've always used a tincture of cloves, wormwood and black walnut, and it's worked well. Those three ingredients have been used around the world for centuries to control parasites in times and places with inferior sanitation systems. And it sure beats choking down castor oil, which is another effective remedy.
We use Intestinal Edge, which I like because unlike most tinctures, it doesn't have an alcohol base. That makes it safer for kids and easier to hide in their juice. You can get it at the link above through my Amazon Affiliate account, or from whatever source you'd like. You can try other brands, too. Just make sure they have the three important ingredients: wormwood, black walnut and cloves.
The directions say to take 1/2 teaspoon two to three times daily on an empty stomach for three weeks, then take a week off and repeat.
I do it a little differently. I take 10-12 drops in water, before or after meals, three times a day for two weeks. Then I take two weeks off. Then I repeat that twice.
Supposedly, this is safe for children of all ages, but being the kind of mama who takes all medicines very seriously, I waited until Tosh weighed 50 lbs before giving it to him. So, this is his first cleanse.
The dosage is based on a 150-lb person, so I reduce my dose by one-third for Tosh. He gets 3-4 drops in apple or orange juice three times a day. We started our second week of our first round today.
The first week, Tosh had super stinky farts, which is a sign it's working. He also had some minor shart accidents in his undies - that's also very common, as is full-blown diarrhea. He's also been scratching his butt, which like a dog scooting across the carpet, is a sign of parasites.
NOTE: Any poop that comes out during a cleanse is infected, which means you should throw out undies after an accident and clean your bathroom with bleach. Also make sure your kids wash their hands after using the bathroom and/or scratching their butts. And bleach the bathtub and their bath toys, too.
Flu like symptoms, headache and other symptoms are also possible. If you experience headaches or any other intolerable symptoms, cut the dose in half and gradually work your way up to a full dose.
If you have any other questions, please leave a comment below.
I've posted quite a bit on social media about how Tosh uses his iPad for communication, and even published this blog post on Proloquo2Go hacks we've learned.
But what I haven't written about is how getting an iPad for Tosh was one of the best decisions I've ever made. I couldn't care less about people who have judged me regarding his screen time.
Around 18 months, Tosh began to regress. By the time he was two, he was really struggling. He couldn't focus on anything for more than a second. He didn't play with many toys, couldn't sit still to read a book for more than a few pages and he didn't show any sign that he could learn.
Then, I got an iPad mini to use while on business trips. I downloaded a couple of apps for Tosh and it quickly became his iPad.
I was stunned and how easily he learned apps. At just two years old he could master them within a few hours.
It was the first time he was able to show me he was smart.
Some parents have asked me if I think they should get their autistic child an iPad. The answer is always yes.
Yes because it might be a platform they can use to communicate their intelligence when other platforms like books or toys fail. Yes because it can function as a sensory regulator when in public, so they can go out into the world like everyone else. Yes because it can be used to communicate.
And yes, because it can buy you a few minutes of peace. Anybody who judges you for that can step in and babysit your autistic child for a few hours. Then we'll see what they have to say.
The next question I get from parents is which apps should they download. All kids are different, but here are the ones Tosh likes best.
TinyHands were the very first apps we downloaded for Tosh and I was stunned at how quickly he learned them. We bought several of them individually, including all of the ones in this bundle. His favorite "Tower 1" game is only available on iPhone now, but it's in this bundle. With these apps he learned how to use a touchscreen and basic concepts like stacking by size, sorting and matching. The bonus was that autistic kiddos are usually pretty good at sorting and stacking, so these apps also built his self-confidence.
Tosh has never met an alphabet game or toy he didn't like, so this one was a slam dunk. Plus he had the Fisher-Price Puppy so this was a nice bridge between an app and a real toy.
This app can be pretty stimulating and might be too much for your child. Sometimes it overstimulated Tosh but he really loved it (as you can see by the open button it's still on his device and mine). Plus, the driving game taught him great hand-eye coordination.
You can't go wrong with Elmo. Tosh loved this app and a similar one, Elmo Loves ABCs. He still has that one on his iPad and plays with it sometimes. The educational benefits are obvious - learning to count, identify numbers and trace to build beginning writing skills.
This app is great for learning about weather and appropriate clothes and activities for each weather type. But Tosh loves it because it's so silly. Things blow away when it's really windy and the characters shiver or sweat if they're wearing the wrong clothing. Having grown up in Kansas, I giggle at the tornado siren and how the characters go underground until the tornado has passed.
Tosh still loves this app and plays with it several times a week. It really is adorable, using Claymation to teach the alphabet. And the animal they use for Y is Yeti, which is pretty cool.
Sago Mini apps are fun and adorable and Tosh still plays with them all frequently. Most of them require creativity and decision making to build something. This time of year, try the Monsters app for Halloween fun that isn't scary.
Sigh. My baby is growing up and now he's playing with a full-on video game. Smashy City is exactly what it sounds like - giant characters smashing urban landscapes while being chased and shot at by police and the military. Awesome. At least it is teaching him strategy because the larger the building, the more points and power the smasher earns. He still hasn't mastered this one, but I love that it's an age appropriate game. Proof he's developing along with his neurotypical peers!
Heather Anderson is a natural health educator, writer, blissfully happy autism mom, fintech marketer and lover of life in Southern California.
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