I receive a lot of comments about what a happy boy Tosh is. And it's true, most of the time he truly is a little ray of sunshine.
My little Aries comes by his good nature naturally, but we've also done a lot of work to build his self image.
Because of Tosh's autism, he spends a lot of time in corrective therapy sessions. Private and school behavioral therapy, private and school speech therapy and OT in school adds up to several hours a day in which he's being corrected.
Just imagine if you were told every day, almost all day long, that everything about you is wrong. And then you go home and hear it from your mom and dad.
I've been working on a course to help parents teach their autistic kids how to go out in public successfully, and researched one of the main reasons families stay home: eloping.
If you don't know what eloping is as it pertains to autism, consider yourself very lucky. Like the traditional definition of eloping, in which people run away to get married, eloping in autism means a child or adult runs away from school, home or elsewhere without a caregiver. It happens every damn day and it's rarely the fault of teachers, aides, parents or caregivers being careless or inattentive. Oftentimes, the child is very clever and sneaky about it, and disappear in a matter of seconds.
Autism occurs more frequently than it used to, but even back in the 80s ... whether it was the 1780s or the 1980s ... there were plenty of undiagnosed cases.
When you have a child with autism or work with those who have special needs, you become intimately educated about autism's symptoms. And if you have a relentlessly curious mind like I do, you can't help but wonder about some historical figures when you hear about their unique behaviors.
In particular, three famous people stand out in my mind as likely undiagnosed autistics: POTUS 3 and Mt. Rushmore face Thomas Jefferson, artist Andy Warhol and rock icon Kurt Cobain.
Heather Anderson is a blissfully happy autism mom and lover of life in Southern California who is on a mission to help autism parents rediscover their happy place.
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